A Prayer about Knowing God as Our Good Father

A Prayer about Knowing God as Our Good Father

Abba, Father,

Wow! This one simple Hebrew word, 

which translates better they say as “Daddy,”

has the potential to change everything 

about how we see you and how we see ourselves, 

and most of all, how we live our lives.

How shocking really, that the holy God, 

the Creator and Sustainer of the universe, 

would stoop to being called “Daddy” by us, 

your wayward sinner saints.

You are unlike any earthly Daddy, 

for you never lose your patience with us, 

you never harm us in any way, 

you never leave us or forsake us. 

You always invite us to come to you, 

to tell you about our worry and our fear, 

our hopes and our dreams, 

our sin and our sorrow.

Help us to live and love 

out of this secure and stable place today, 

speaking gently to our kids and our spouses, 

acting kindly toward our friends and our enemies, 

sharing your Father-love with anyone and everyone we meet.

In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Read Galatians 4:1-7.

A Prayer about God Hearing Our Prayers

A Prayer about God Hearing Our Prayers

Loving Father,

We confess, sometimes we wonder 

if you hear our prayers. 

Thank you for giving us the words of your Word, 

other travelers voicing our questions, 

“Why, Lord, do you stand far off? 

Why do you hide yourself in times of trouble?” (Psalm 10:1) 

“My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” (Matthew 27:46). 

In days of doubt, 

remind us that you have not rejected our prayers 

or withheld your love from us (Psalm 66:20). 

Remind us of the many awesome deeds you have done:

You “turned the sea into dry land; 

they passed through the river on foot” (Psalm 66:6).

You have “kept our soul among the living 

and has not let our feet slip” (Psalm 66:9). 

Most of all, you allowed your Son to be forsaken 

that we might never be forsaken again (Matthew 27:46). 

Because of your great mercy, 

we join the Psalmist in singing your praise,

“But truly God has listened; 

he has attended to the voice of my prayer” (Psalm 66:19).

Read Psalm 66. 

A Prayer for When We’re Overburdened

A Prayer for When We’re Overburdened

God of All Comfort,

Thank you! 

You know we are plagued

by weakness and weariness.

You know our world demands

that we be strong, independent, 

powerful, competent. 

You know some Christians boast, 

“I can do all things through Christ 

who strengthens me,” (Philippians 4:13), 

but we feel inadequate. 

Thank you for Paul’s honesty about his weakness 

in the face of “deadly peril,” 

“a thorn in the flesh,” 

and countless other threats. 

Lord, for those of us who “despair of life itself,” 

may our weakness drive us straight into your strength. 

May our weakness teach us 

to “rely not on ourselves but the God who raises the dead” (2 Corinthians 1:9). 

When we feel overburdened,

whether from a shipwreck of relationship,

the shadow of sickness

or the shouting accusation of failure,

may we remember 

that you have you have already delivered us 

from the “deadly peril” of sin and death, 

and that you will continue to deliver us,

until the day you return. 

In your trustworthy name. Amen.

Read 2 Corinthians 1:8-11; 2 Corinthians 12:1-10.

Bible Study: Six Steps to Learning the Language

Bible Study: Six Steps to Learning the Language

Learning a new language brings freedom to travel.

Last year, our twenty-four-year old son traveled to Europe, first to Barcelona, then to France, where he participated in a music festival. Unlike me, he can navigate these foreign lands freely, because he is fluent in Spanish and highly proficient in French. Although he has a natural affinity and love for languages, his fluency is hard-fought; he trained rigorously to acquire it. One summer when he was around eleven, he decided he wanted to learn Spanish. He made a plan and set up a program for himself. He prioritized this work, setting aside around four to six hours a day (yes, he always was an unusual child!) for study. To prepare, he bought books on grammar and vocabulary; as part of the process, he made flashcards and listened to recordings. As he gained knowledge, he spent time speaking the language with his piano teacher, who is originally from Colombia. The next summer he attended an immersion program in Costa Rica and eventually began teaching adults the language. A year or so later, he followed a similar process to learn French.

Growing a passion for the language gives us more freedom in Christ.

Why, you ask, am I telling you all this? (Am I just bragging, as my son-in-law would say?). Although I do enjoy bragging on my kids, what I really want is to facilitate a passion for and proficiency in the Christian’s language, the Word of God. Now that we are citizens of Christ’s kingdom, how do we gain the freedom and joy to journey in it, to live in it? We do so by becoming more like Christ and by coming closer to Christ. One of the best ways to do that is to read and study the Word of God that tells the story of how we first became citizens and how we are to live in his land. Although studying God’s Word does not require all of the following steps, I’m going to list some that might help. Once you’ve used this process for a while, you probably won’t need to think about it; you’ll just go through it automatically. But if you’re getting started or trying to re-ignite a dwindling fire, these six P’s may help.

1. Pray

I don’t know that our son prayed about learning Spanish, but we can certainly ask God for the discipline to read and study the Bible. That’s what I call extra help!

2. Purpose

Our purpose in reading and studying the Bible is always to grow in godliness, which is to become more like Christ and to come closer to Christ.

3. Prioritize

We know this. New habits require new neurons to fire. We will have to set aside time, even make a reminder on our phone or put an appointment in our calendar if we are going to develop a healthy habit of Bible study.

4. Prepare

Just as our son gathered resources, you may need to gather some tools:

5. Plan

Whether you want to read the whole Bible over a period of time or to spend more time in-depth in a particular book of the Bible, it’s good to have a plan.

  • Think about how long it takes to read a chapter of a book, and plan how many chapters you will read a day.
  • Keep a record of which books you’ve read, so you can make sure to cover all of the Bible at some point. (For more on the question of whether you really need to read the whole Bible, see this post.)
  • For reading the whole Bible, you can find some good plans here:

6. Process

When our son sat down to study Spanish and French, he went through a process to help him learn.

Here is a suggested process for Bible study with seven steps:

1. Pray

Ask the Holy Spirit to instruct and engage your whole being with whatever you are about to read.

2. Read the passage once.

Read it aloud if you can, or listen with one of the great apps made for this purpose.

3. Read (or listen) again.

Ask, “What does this literally say?” Try to paraphrase in your own words.

4. Interpret

  • Consider the literary genre, the historical context (study Bibles and commentaries may be helpful for this).
  • Consider the story elements like character, plot, setting, metaphor, etc.: What comparisons are being made? Ask questions like “Who are the characters, and how did they respond?” “What would the original characters in the story have felt, thought?”
  • Ask, “What is the deeper meaning?”

5. Apply

Tim Challies and Josh Byers, in their book, Visual Theology Guide to the Bible, suggest considering three categories for application: “The head, the heart, and the hands.” Try these questions for each type of application:

  • The head:
    • What does the passage say about God, yourself, living the gospel, Christian doctrine?
    • How does the passage fit in with the overall story of the Bible?
  • The heart:
    • How do I feel reading this passage? Does the passage suggest certain emotional responses?
    • Is there something in this that makes me feel uncomfortable? Why?
  • The hands:
    • Ask, “How can I live this out wherever I’m going, whatever I’m doing today?
    • What does it tell/show me about loving God and loving others? Do I need to pray about something? Do I need to confess something?

Remember: The purpose of application is to connect it to your living story, how you will become more like Christ and be drawn nearer to Christ.

6. Pray

Use some of the words you read to pray back to God.

  • For example: “Lord, help me train myself for godliness” (1 Tim. 4:7).
  • “Lord, I don’t know what it means that Paul handed these guys over to Satan (1 Tim. 1: 20), but that sounds scary. Please help me to continue to grow in faith and not fall away.”
  • “God, it says you are the ‘eternal, immortal, invisible King…’ (1 Tim. 1:17). I adore you. I yield to your rule over my life.”

7. Meditate/Memorize

Write down one verse or even a phrase from your reading to meditate on or memorize during the day or over the course of a week.

That’s it! Are you ready? Go!

Practice this process once a day, five days a week, for three weeks. (If you’re a Living Story subscriber, I’ve even provided free Bible study pages to guide you).  If you do this for three weeks, chances are you’ll have a new habit for Bible study. At the very least, you’ll gain a new appreciation for the beauty of the language and the story God has given us to help us know and enjoy him. At the most, you’ll acquire proficiency in the language you need to live in the only country where true freedom exists.

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author of A Heart Set Free: A Journey to Hope Through the Psalms of Lament.

A Prayer for When We’ve Committed “Big” Sins

A Prayer for When We’ve Committed “Big” Sins

Lord Jesus, 

I know you’ve said my sins are forgiven 

when I trusted in you as Savior, but…

You don’t know how big and bad this one is.

You don’t know how many times I’ve done it.

You don’t know how many people I’ve harmed 

and how severe the damage is.

You don’t know how helpless I feel 

to never do this terrible thing again.

Hear how Jesus might respond to such a prayer, 

based on what Scripture tells us:

“Actually, I do know, because I know everything about you. 

I know the dark depths of your heart. 

I know that you were dead in your sin (Ephesians 2:1).

I know you were helpless to rescue yourself (Matthew 9:36).

That’s why I drank the full cup 

of our holy Father’s wrath on your behalf (Isaiah 51:17),

so you could drink of the overflowing cup 

of his mercy and forgiveness (Ephesians 2:4).

And I know the consequences of this sin (Hebrews 12:4-7).

I am in the business of restoring broken things, 

so I know you’ll need to keep coming to me 

to learn how to love and live in the freedom 

for which I have set you free (Galatians 5:1).”

Thank you, Jesus, that Scripture gives us such hope, 

that when we come to you with all of our sins, “big” and “little,” 

you will never cast us out.

In your restoring name. Amen.

[This prayer was inspired by a chapter in Dane Ortlund’s book Gentle and Lowly: The Heart of Christ for Sinners and Sufferers].