A Prayer about Being Kind to One Another

A Prayer about Being Kind to One Another

In our world, kindness is not the norm. 

Rather, people seem to enjoy 

and even feel entitled to 

“bitterness and wrath and anger 

and clamor and slander and malice” (Ephesians 4:31). 

And yet, you have clothed us in a new self, 

created after your likeness, 

in “true righteousness and holiness” (Ephesians 4:24). 

We walk in this world, 

arrayed in your garments of grace. 

As we move through this week, 

may we look to see how we can stir up 

joy and kindness and forgiveness 

and faith and hope and love 

in any and all we meet. 

In the name of our Savior Jesus, 

who is transforming us.

Amen. 

Read Ephesians 4:17-32. 

A Prayer about Our Adoption

A Prayer about Our Adoption

Abba,

Last week I enjoyed joining our son for “gotcha day” 

for his sweet new puppy. 

This day culminated years of longing 

for a furry friend of his own, 

of saving money for that friend, 

of planning the right time, 

of choosing first the parents 

and then a particular puppy. 

For months he planned and prepared 

to nurture and provide for her, 

to make her a home. 

And then the day came. 

As he held his cuddly puppy, 

his face beamed like a proud pawpaw.

This picture of adoption 

gives us a small glimpse

into your much much bigger plan for adopting us 

as your sons and daughters. 

Long ago, before the beginning of the world, 

knowing your creatures would be separated from you 

by our sin, 

you made a plan. 

That plan involved a much greater price and preparation 

than our son paid or made—

it cost you the life of your Son, our Savior, Jesus. 

Why would you do such a thing? 

Because it pleased you. 

Because you wanted to make us right with you 

so we could live under your love and protection

in our forever home, 

today and forever. 

May we never forget the wonder 

of our “gotcha day”!

In Jesus’ sacrificing name. Amen.

Read Ephesians 1:3-10.

A Prayer about Admitting Our Need

A Prayer about Admitting Our Need

Dear Father,

What do a persistent widow, 

a shamed tax collector, 

and a blind beggar have in common (Luke 18)?

No, Father, I am not writing jokes into my prayers, 

I am just enjoying the connections your Holy Spirit makes 

as I read through my Bible.

Each of these characters, 

two fictional and one real, 

knew their desperate need, 

their hopelessness without rescue and redemption. 

They all humbled themselves 

to lay their need before one who could help them.

Today, may we humble ourselves, 

leaning fully into your unfailing mercy, 

admitting our need 

for your redemption from our sins 

and your restoration of this broken world. 

We thank you and praise you 

for the restoration work you have already begun 

in Christ, our redeeming Savior.

In his name we pray. Amen.

Read Luke 18. 

A Prayer about Listening to God

A Prayer about Listening to God

Speaking Lord, 

as we begin this week, 

many of us think about the work we need to do.

What if we began instead 

by thinking of prayer as our most important work?

And then, what if we began our prayer 

by listening to you 

rather than listing our many needs? 

Not that you don’t invite us 

to present all of our requests before you (Philippians 4: 6),

But too often we fail to see prayer as 

“answering God,” 

as Eugene Peterson put it. 

Today, let us begin by listening to a few things 

you’ve told us in your Word:

“For behold, I create new heavens and a new earth, 

and the former things shall not be remembered or come to mind” (Isaiah 65:1).

[Remain quiet and dwell on these words God has spoken to you].

“But be glad and rejoice forever in that which I create; 

for behold, I create Jerusalem to be a joy, 

and her people to be a gladness.”

[Remain quiet and listen to God speaking his joy and gladness over you.]

“I will rejoice in Jerusalem and be glad in my people; 

no more shall be heard in it the sound of weeping and the cry of distress.”

[Remain quiet and imagine the day of no more weeping and distress.]

Lord, may our prayers become more quiet. 

Make us attentive listeners, 

curious to hear what you have to say to us. 

As we hear your voice, 

through your Word, through general revelation, 

and through your Spirit, 

make our hearts beat more regularly 

to the rhythm of your grace and glory. 

In the name of the Word-Made-Flesh, Jesus our Savior. Amen.

Read Isaiah 65:17-25. 

A Prayer about Making Loving Decisions

A Prayer about Making Loving Decisions

Loving God,

Many of us desperately need wisdom and clarity about tough decisions. 

I love how this verse tells us to begin with your love. 

Our love actually begins 

with knowledge of your contra-conditional love for us. 

As we grow in knowing that your love secures us, 

we grow in general knowledge and depth of insight — 

the wisdom and discernment we need 

for our daily decisions. 

It might look like this: 

my friend is trying to make a decision 

about where to send her daughter to kindergarten: 

public school, Christian school, homeschool? 

Instead of worrying and fretting, 

she spends time thinking about how much you love her

and how much you love her daughter. 

She then wisely entrusts her daughter’s story to you, 

knowing that you will provide for her 

in numerous ways.

With that peace of mind, 

she can choose where to send her daughter 

knowing that you will walk with her, 

working in her life to make her and her mom 

“pure and blameless for the day of Christ, 

filled with the fruit of righteousness 

that comes through Jesus Christ….” 

In Jesus’ clarifying name. Amen.

Read Philippians 1:3-11.

Oh, Lord,

We do bless you! 

Thank you for reminding us of all your benefits:

You forgive all our iniquity: 

when we tell half-truths, 

when we join in the coffee room gossip, 

when we put our trust in things of this earth rather than you — 

you forgive us! 

You heal all our diseases—

when we tolerate toxins which destroy our hearts, 

things like envy, comparison, unforgiveness, impatience—

you inject your antidote of grace, love, mercy, and compassion! (Psalm 103:3)

You redeem our lives from the pit—

when we have sunk farther than we ever thought we could go, 

you extricate us from our mucky ruts! (Psalm 103:4).

Not only do you forgive and heal and redeem—

you crown us with steadfast love and mercy, 

you satisfy us with good, 

you renew our youth like the eagle’s (Psalm 103:4-5).

Lord, today may we truly rejoice in all of your benefits, 

living and loving in the hope of your renewal.

In Jesus’ redeeming name. Amen. 

Read Psalm 103:1-5. 

A Prayer about Cheerful Giving

A Prayer about Cheerful Giving

Generous Father,

What a mind-boggling statement about giving. 

Frankly, it’s not always what we hear in the church. 

Some churches hesitate to speak about giving 

because of the fear that people will feel manipulated. 

Other churches work the crowd, 

twisting arms and loading on guilt. 

The gospel frees us from both errors,

laying out the one essential motivation for giving:

You have given us your Son as our Savior. 

You sent him into the world, to die on a cross, 

so that we might become your children. 

You didn’t give him grudgingly; 

you didn’t give him “under compulsion”;

you didn’t give him reluctantly. 

You gave him with great joy and delight, 

knowing that this gift would return to you 

the profound joy 

of welcoming your children home.

Lord, help us to meditate on this good news 

as we consider giving. 

As we do, make us cheerful, generous givers, 

and give us great joy in the privilege of giving. 

In Jesus’ life-giving name. Amen. 

Read 2 Corinthians 9.