A Prayer about Affliction

A Prayer about Affliction

Do you ever struggle to understand affliction?

I know, O Lord, that your rules are righteous, and that in faithfulness you have afflicted me. Psalm 119:75

Faithful Lord,

The truth is, we don’t like to think that you afflict us. 

And then, when we do think you afflict us, 

we don’t always remember that it is 

“in faithfulness” that you do so. 

Today, I can more easily see how and why 

you might allow what feels like affliction in our lives. 

We have had to withhold food

from our beloved dog-who-thinks-she-is-a-person 

since last night at 8 p.m., 

because she is getting her teeth cleaned today. 

She has begged, 

she has nudged, 

she has barked her displeasure 

at not getting her morning treats, 

her morning meal, 

and her second round of morning treats. 

(I know, maybe we’re too extravagant with her?) 

(But not any less so than you are with us!).

To her, this feels like affliction. 

But we know that if we fed her, 

she might aspirate while under the anesthetic. 

Finally, she has settled, 

choosing to take a nap, 

choosing to trust 

that we have a good reason 

for “afflicting” her. 

Today, Lord, we pray that we would do the same—

that we would settle, 

that we would trust you, 

that we would know any affliction we experience 

is faithfully, sovereignly, lovingly 

administered by you. 

In the name of our afflicted Savior we pray. Amen.

Read Psalm 119:67, 71, 75. 

A Prayer about the Impossibility of Love

A Prayer about the Impossibility of Love

Can you love like this?

“Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” 1 Corinthians 13: 7

Loving Father, Son, and Holy Spirit,

We confess,

When we read the apostle Paul’s description of love, 

we know we cannot love like this.

One translation states,

“Love always protects…”

We confess, we sometimes protect — until we find it too hard or inconvenient….

“Love always trusts…”

We confess, we sometimes trust—until someone fails us repeatedly.

“Love always hopes…”

We confess, we sometimes hope—until it hurts too much to keep hoping.

“Love always perseveres…”

We confess, we sometimes persevere—until we get too tired and give up. 

“Love never fails.”

We confess, we often fail in love.

Thanks be to God — 

to you, our ever-loving Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, 

these words apply to You — 

You are the one 

who always protects, 

always trusts, 

always hopes, 

always perseveres.” 

You are love, 

and your love never fails. 

How secure we are in that love. 

What hope we have that one day 

we truly will always, 

everyday, 

love as you do. 

Keep growing us in that love until that day comes.

Amen. 

Read 1 Corinthians 13.

A Prayer about Wisdom for Caregivers

A Prayer about Wisdom for Caregivers

Do you have a caregiving friend, or are you a caregiver needing wisdom?

For the Lord gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding. Proverbs 2:6

Wise and Gracious Lord,

Thank you for the wisdom you give 

for all of life’s hard stories and tough decisions. 

Today we think of our caregiving friends, 

who face weighty decisions daily 

concerning their loved ones’ care. 

Which medicine to try, 

how to get their loved one to comply with doctor’s orders, 

whether to take the car keys or not, 

how long to continue trying new treatments….

the list goes on and on. 

We pray for them, 

that they would hear you answering their prayers, 

perhaps in the form of helpful and wise counselors 

who have been there before them 

or in the form of gentle and kind social workers 

who understand the situation. 

We pray that you would deploy us 

as answers to their prayers, 

simply by offering respite 

or picking up mail while they’re at the hospital, 

or performing a simple task 

like walking the dog or delivering a meal. 

We pray that you would show them 

your deep compassion and forgiveness, 

especially if they are feeling a sense of failing their loved ones. 

Lord, in their hard caregiving days, 

may they truly know the rest and kindness of Jesus, 

our constant and caring companion.

Amen.

Read Proverbs 2:6; Psalm 91:1, 16; Isaiah 25:6-8; Ecclesiastes 3:1-8.

A Prayer about the God Who Guides Us

A Prayer about the God Who Guides Us

Do you need guidance?

For this is our God forever and ever; he will be our guide even to the end. Psalm 48:14

Our God, 

How great are you indeed! 

You were committed to dwelling with your people,

 and long ago, you chose to dwell 

in a man-made temple in a man-made city 

as the mighty King of your people (Psalm 48:1-3). 

Other kings caught one look at your might, 

panicked, and ran away (Psalm 48:5). 

Not only are you mighty, you are merciful. 

The people rejoice as they consider

your “steadfast love” and “righteousness” 

and wise “judgments” (Psalm 48:9-11) 

Long ago, your people told of your greatness 

to the next generation; 

today, we praise you, 

because you have deigned to make yourself 

our God, forever and ever. 

Not only are you our God, 

you are our guide, 

today and tomorrow, 

and to the end of our days. 

Even at the end of our days on this earth, 

in you, the end is only the beginning. 

One day, our great King Jesus will return, 

and we will dwell with you forever, 

secure and safe in the eternal joy 

of your everlasting kingdom. 

What reason for rejoicing! Amen.

Read Psalm 48.

A Prayer about Waiting for Recovery

A Prayer about Waiting for Recovery

Do you need help for your unbelief?

Lord, I believe; help my unbelief. Mark 9:24

Heavenly Father,

How this earthly father’s words resonate with us. 

He had likely lost all hope that his son, 

who was violently abused by an “unclean spirit,” 

would ever recover (Mark 9:17). 

And yet, he, like we, 

dared to hope that Jesus could help. 

He, like we, in our hopeless and discouragement, can only ask, 

if you can do anything, 

have compassion on us and help us” (Mark 9:22). 

When Jesus responds, “Anything is possible if a person believes,” 

the father admits his ambivalence: “Lord, I believe; help my unbelief” (Mark 9:24). 

Oh Lord, how we thank you 

that your healing work in our lives, 

whether healing of sin, 

healing of addiction, 

healing of illness, 

or healing of relationships, 

does not depend on our level of faith. 

Oh Lord, how we thank you 

that you are the faithful one 

who loves us deeply in our doubt. 

Oh Lord, how we thank you 

that we know the day of full and final healing 

is coming soon. 

In Jesus’ faithful name. Amen.  

Read Mark 9:14-29. 

A Prayer about Not Resenting Correction

A Prayer about Not Resenting Correction

How do you feel about correction?

Mockers resent correction, so they avoid the wise. Proverbs 15:12

Gracious Father,

Throughout your word, 

we find you calling us 

to heed correction and discipline. 

And yet, we confess, 

we resist it; 

sometimes we even resent it. 

How desperately we need your correction, though,

for our hearts are stubborn and still plagued by sin; 

we are too much the wayward sheep, 

all going our own way (See Isaiah 53:6).

How desperately we need a Savior, 

and how desperately we need to trust your discipline 

as a kindness to us. 

We do not want to be people 

who “despise the Lord’s discipline,” 

who “resent your rebuke” (Prov. 3:11).

Rather, make us your very own children 

who know that you “discipline the one you love” (Hebrews 11:6), 

who trust that your discipline, 

while it seems painful, 

“yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness 

to those who have been trained by it” (Heb. 12:11). 

In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Read Proverbs 3:11; Proverbs 15:12; Hebrews 12:3-11.