A Prayer about Redemption in Marriage

A Prayer about Redemption in Marriage

Redeeming Lord,

On this my 39th wedding anniversary, 

I marvel at your kindness to my husband and to me. 

We both readily admit 

that marriage hasn’t always been easy, 

because our natural tendencies don’t really fit 

the description of our calling in marriage. 

I don’t naturally submit to my husband, 

and he doesn’t naturally nourish me 

the way Christ does the church (Ephesians 5:22, 33, 25). 

And yet, what we would also confess 

is that you have

redeemed us, 

transformed us, 

sharpened us, 

through marriage. 

Over the years, 

by the power of the Holy Spirit alone, 

through faith in Christ alone, 

we have ever so slowly 

become people 

who will sacrifice our agendas for the other. 

You have been at work, 

making us less selfish 

and more dependent — 

on one another and mostly, on you. 

And my hunch is that’s exactly how you meant it to be. 

Thank you for your redemptive work in marriages. 

When it’s hard, continue to bless us all 

with the hope and love of our Savior, 

the perfect bridegroom who gave himself up 

to sanctify us for himself (Ephesians 5:25-26). 

In his forgiving name. Amen.

Read Ephesians 4:21-5:33. 

A Prayer about Imagining God’s Peaceful Kingdom

A Prayer about Imagining God’s Peaceful Kingdom

Heavenly Father,

Enliven our imaginations so that 

we may see the reality of your kingdom of peace 

which has already come and which awaits fulfillment. 

Too often we are like the skeptical people 

Hemingway refers to in The Sun Also Rises, 

who mock those who believe in beauty, saying, 

“Isn’t it pretty to think so?”* 

You have said that one day 

the “wolf shall dwell with the lamb, 

and the leopard shall lie down with the young goat” (Isaiah 11:6)

It’s not just pretty to think so 

but profound to believe.

Indeed, you have already sent our Savior, 

the one in whom “The Spirit of the Lord” rests, 

in whom 

“the Spirit of wisdom and understanding, 

the Spirit of counsel and might, 

the Spirit of knowledge and fear of the Lord” 

is embodied (Isaiah 11:1-2).

Because Christ has come, 

because he has died for our sins,

 because he has risen from the dead, 

and because he is coming again, 

we have every reason to live now 

as if such peace and flourishing have already begun.

We have every reason to no longer “hurt or destroy.” 

For indeed, the whole earth, 

from the Gulf of Mexico to the Arctic Ocean, 

is full of the knowledge of you, Lord. 

May we live and love today as if we really believe.

In Jesus’ peace-bringing name. Amen. 

Read Isaiah 11. 

*Quoted in Rankin Wilbourne’s excellent book Union with Christ: The Way to Know and Enjoy God.

A Prayer about Lasting Joy and Blessing

A Prayer about Lasting Joy and Blessing

Lord Jesus,

We confess, we need your blessing to transform our minds.

I heard a revealing statistic yesterday: 

When asked, “What is your purpose in life?” 

84 percent of Americans answered, 

“To be happy.” 

Asked how they will become happy, 

they said “by following their hearts.”

That’s a long way away from the kind of joy and blessing 

you talk about in your kingdom. 

You say that those who are poor in spirit 

are blessed and joyful 

because they belong in your kingdom.

You say that those who mourn 

are blessed and joyful 

because they will be comforted in your kingdom.

You say that the humble 

are blessed and joyful 

because they shall inherit the earth.

You say that the merciful 

are blessed and joyful 

because they shall receive mercy.

You say that the pure in heart 

are blessed and joyful 

because they shall see God.

You say that the peacemakers 

are blessed and joyful 

because they shall be called your children.

You say that the persecuted 

are blessed and joyful 

because they belong in your kingdom.

Jesus, forgive us for our self-centered pursuit 

of what we want when we want it. 

Turn us upside down

 so we can learn to live and love 

in your upside-down kingdom, 

putting you and others before ourselves.

In your sacrificial name. Amen. 

Read Matthew 5:5-12.

Waiting with Hope

Waiting with Hope

Dear Friends,

In the aftermath of Hurricane Ida, I thought this excerpt from the book From Recovery to Restoration:60 Meditations for Finding Peace & Hope in Crisis would encourage hearts today. Please share it with someone you know who needs it. Also, be sure to sign up for the chance to win free books every week in September as we celebrate the one-year birthday of From Recovery to Restoration. 

Waiting with Hope

We too, wait with eager hope for the day when God will give us our full rights as his adopted children, including the new bodies he has promised us. Romans 8:23b, ESV

Waiting for hours to buy gas after a hurricane.

Waiting for weeks for workmen’s compensation to authorize a surgery.

Waiting for months to recover from a heart attack.

Waiting for years to have one happy day after the death of a child. 

Whenever our stories are shattered by crisis, a season of waiting will likely follow. Waiting can be irritating at a long pharmacy drive-thru line, but in the profound losses of a crisis, it can be agonizing. What does it look like to wait with hope as we grieve our losses?

First we must recognize the difference between earthly hope and biblical hope. Earthly hope focuses on good outcomes in the here and now, or at least the near future. There is nothing wrong with such hope—hoping that the surgery is approved and that the recovery goes smoothly, hoping that the betrayal will sting less tomorrow than it does today. And yet, earthly hope is often limited by our own short-sightedness, our inability to see everything our all-seeing God sees. To all earthly hope, we need to add biblical hope.

Biblical hope, as defined by Dan Allender and Tremper Longman is a “vision of redemption in the midst of decay.” Biblical hope is based on faith, on remembering how God has rescued in the past: “Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen” (Hebrews 11:1 ESV). Biblical hope focuses on the end of the story, the day when Jesus will return and restore all broken things (Romans 8:18-19). In that day, we will be restored to our Father as his adopted children, and all of creation’s groaning will end in fruitful labor, Christ’s perfected new creation (2 Corinthians 5:17). 

When we wait with biblical hope, we will continue to pray for God’s good gifts on this earth: gas to fuel generators after a hurricane, a sweet memory on a loved one’s death day. Biblical hope leads us to pray, “God, if I don’t get the gas today, help me be patient and trust your provision,” or “If I am sad all day long, be near to me in my grief.” When our earthly hopes are disappointed, biblical hope compels us to look and lean toward the final day when “all things work together for good” in the lives of those who trust God for life and salvation (Romans 8:28). 

Dear friends, when the wait feels excruciating, remember that you have evidence that your deepest hopes will not go unfulfilled: Christ has already come to rescue and redeem. Remember what you are waiting for—glory itself!  Knowing this, keep hoping with an active imagination, leaning into the future, leaning into God’s loving purposes in our hardest waits.

Prayer

Lord,

How long? This is our cry as we wait in impossibly long lines or for seemingly improbable recoveries. Draw our eyes to the horizon, to see Jesus “coming soon” to end our grievous wait. In Jesus’ already-redeeming name. Amen.

Further Encouragement

Read Romans 8:18-30. 

Listen to “Spring Is Coming” by Steven Curtis Chapman.

For Reflection

How has waiting felt for you in this crisis? What earthly hopes have been disappointed? How might remembering the end of the biblical Story help you wait with patience?

A Prayer about Suffering for the Sake of Christ

A Prayer about Suffering for the Sake of Christ

Father God,

Thank you for the Apostle Paul. 

What a strange and wonderful man he was, 

so markedly changed by Jesus Christ.

He spoke these words of farewell 

to his dear friends in Ephesus, 

saying basically, 

“I don’t know what will happen to me in Jerusalem, 

but I know I will suffer and be imprisoned” (Acts 20:22-23). 

He continued his farewell by saying, 

“It’s not about me” (ET translation Acts 20:24a), 

stating his primary purpose, his main goal:

“If only I may finish my course and the ministry 

that I received from the Lord Jesus, 

to testify to the gospel of the grace of God” (Acts 20:24).

Father, I confess, too often, 

my main focus is getting things checked off my to-do list, 

or praying for and supporting my children in their various needs. 

These are good things, but I want my focus to be on the best thing. 

By the power of your Holy Spirit, make me more like Paul….

no, scratch that—make me more like Jesus, 

willing to suffer 

so that many would know the good news about your grace.

In Jesus’ life-changing name. Amen.

Read Acts 20:17-38.

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