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Staff Sergeant Daniel Clay

In December 2005, the 27-year-old son of dear friends was struck down by an explosive in Iraq. Sad, sudden, shocking, and yet, not.

Shortly after the funeral, Sergeant Daniel Clay’s father posted a letter to the editor, in which he included the text of the letter his son had written, in the case of his death. The letter was read at his funeral. It was eerie to hear Dan speaking from “beyond this life.” And despite the call not to weep, there were few dry eyes that day.

Whatever your political persuasion, today is a day to honor those who have fallen in service to our country, and even more, to re-consider the call God has given each of us to bring freedom to the oppressed. Hear the call to hope from a young man who did:

Text of Sgt. Daniel Clay’s Letter to His Family:


Boy do I love each and every one of you. This letter being read means that I have been deemed worthy of being with Christ. With MaMa Jo, MaMa Clay, Jennifer …. all those we have been without for our time during the race. This is not a bad thing. It is what we hope for. The secret is out. He lives and His promises are real! It is not faith that supports this …. but fact and I now am a part of the promise. Here is notice! Wake up! All that we hope for is Real. Not a hope. But Real.

But here is something tangible. What we have done in Iraq is worth any sacrifice. Why? Because it was our duty. That sounds simple. But all of us have a duty. Duty is defined as a God given task. Without duty life is worthless. It holds no type of fulfillment. The simple fact that our bodies are built for work has to lead us to the conclusion that God (who made us) put us together to do His work. His work is different for each of us.

Mom, yours was to be the glue of our family, to be a pillar for those women (all women around you), Dad, yours was to train and build us (like a Platoon Sgt) to better serve Him. Kristie, Kim, Katy you are the five team leaders who support your Squad ldrs, Jodie, Robert and Richard. Lisa you too. You are my XO and you did a hell of a job. You all have your duties. Be thankful that God in His wisdom gives us work. Mine was to ensure that you did not have to experience what it takes to protect what we have as a family. This I am so thankful for. I know what honor is. It is not a word to be thrown around. It has been an Honor to protect and serve all of you. I faced death with the secure knowledge that you would not have to. This is as close to Christ-like I can be. That emulation is where all honor lies. I thank you for making it worthwhile.

As a Marine this is not the last Chapter. I have the privilege of being one who has finished the race. I have been in the company of heroes. I now am counted among them. Never falter! Don’t hesitate to honor and support those of us who have the honor of protecting that which is worth protecting.

Now here are my final wishes. Do not cry! To do so is to not realize what we have placed all our hope and faith in. We should not fear. We should not be sad. Be thankful. Be so thankful. All we hoped for is true. Celebrate! My race is over, my time in war zone is over. My trials are done. A short time separates all of us from His reality. So laugh. Enjoy the moments and your duty. God is wonderful.

I love each and every one of you.

Spread the word …. Christ lives and He is Real.

Semper Fidelis

For the text of Bud Clay’s letter to the editor, go to


On this Memorial Day, we remember the men and women in the armed forces who died fighting to bring freedom and peace. On every memorial day, I am drawn to remember the Prince of Peace, who not only fought and died, but won the battle for us, to live the way we were meant to live. Today I post a quote on shalom from my teachings. Stay tuned tomorrow for a guest blog from Jane Gilbert at for more thoughts on shalom.

“…Shalom is the human being dwelling at peace in all his or her relationships: with God, with self, with fellows, with nature. . . But the peace which is shalom is not merely the absence of hostility, not merely being in the right relationship. Shalom at its highest is enjoyment in one’s relationships. A nation may be at peace with all its neighbors and yet be miserable in its poverty. To dwell in shalom is to enjoy living before God, to enjoy living in one’s physical surroundings, to enjoy living with one’s fellows, to enjoy life with oneself…”
Nicolas Wolterstorff, Until Justice and Peace Embrace