5 Ways for Weary Moms to Rest: Part 2
To weary moms, continued…
Last week, I posted the first part of a letter I wrote to any moms wearied by the work of raising children. Today, enjoy part 2!
Dear weary mom, you have permission, in Christ, to stop…
trying to be supermom. God designed us to be interdependent with others. Accept help and ask for it.
Are you trying to nurse a baby, help a first grader with homework, and cook dinner while your husband is sitting on the couch checking email? Ask him for help. It is true — he’s had a long day at work, but you’ve had a long day at work too. These days won’t be this busy FOREVER!! He won’t regret his involvement, and you won’t either.
Your next-door-neighbor loves to stay and watch mini-mite football practice. You have two other drop-offs to make. Why not ask him if he minds driving your son too?
God provides us with rest in the most practical of ways — we are members of a body with different gifts and in different seasons.
saying “yes.” Practice one eloquent way to say “no” to the zillions of requests sent your way:
Someone else will be room mom (or dad), or maybe no one else will step up. The teacher does need help, but you’re caring for your aging grandmother — can you really do both without exhausting yourself?Dear weary mom, you have permission to make people unhappy. Click To Tweet
- Other things you may pronounce a guilt-free “no” to:
sending homemade cupcakes to school for your child’s birthday,
- buying your 16-year-old a new car,
- and taking responsibility for your child’s failure or sin.
saying “no.” Say yes to more play and rest.
Let’s be honest — it can become a habit, right?
“No, you can’t come in past curfew.”
“No, you can’t eat dessert before dinner.”
“No, you can’t watch Leave it to Beaver before you do your homework (TVLand, anyone:-)?).”
(And yes, when I was a child, I watched Leave it to Beaver every day before I did my homework:-)! (While eating Chips Ahoy cookies and drinking full-tilt Coke!)
Say yes to rest by saying no to one of the 40 volleyball/soccer games your two combined children will compete in. If you’re an introvert, stay home and lie on the couch with a good book; if you’re an extrovert, don a lime green feather boa and go to Chile’s with ten of your closest friends.Click To Tweet
Tell the kids to skip the room cleanup and go out for ice cream. Let them take a sick day – adults get them – why shouldn’t they (I know – because they get school holidays:-) – but still!)? Tell them they can’t dump a bucket of ice on you for a good cause, but you will help them have a bake sale to raise money.
Rest, weary mom, because God created rest and Jesus gives rest.
“ And on the seventh day God finished his work that he had done, and he rested on the seventh day from all his work that he had done.” Gen. 2:2
Come to him, you weary and heavy-laden mom, and rest, for truly his yoke is easy and his burden is light.
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